If you feel stuck and unhappy with your marriage, then you’re not alone.
According to one study, only 17 percent of people are happy in their relationship.
Why are the majority of people not happy in married life? Dishonesty, adultery, and lack of communication are among the main reasons.
Whatever the reasons are, if you choose to stay with a partner that you don’t like anymore, you’ll find only frustration, sadness, and negativity in your life. That’s why it is smart to move on and get a peaceful divorce to enjoy the rest of your life as you wish to live.
If you’re thinking of getting a divorce with a good settlement, read on to learn how to use the law of attraction to manifest a divorce. In addition, find out what to do after a divorce.
Can you manifest divorce?
It is possible to manifest divorce using the law of attraction. The law of attraction is all about your thougths and belief system. You will manifest what you truly desire if you ask the universe with unwavering faith in Him.
A divorce is a life-changing event. It can be highly stressful as well as both physically and mentally exhausting.
That’s why you don’t just want a divorce, you want a peaceful divorce with a good settlement. You want the divorce the way you want it to happen. You want to end a toxic relationship on good terms.
You don’t need unnecessary drama, Right?
If so, then practicing the law of attraction can help you manifest divorce and attract the life you truly want to live.
How to manifest divorce? (5 Steps)
Step#1: Change your belief system
The stories you tell yourselves to define reality is your belief system. It is your belief system that determines the success at manifestation.
If you believe something is true, good, and possible, you’ll eventually manifest them. On the contrary, trying to manifest things you don’t believe won’t give you any result.
There is a big difference between wanting and believing. To manifest, your wants should match with your belief system.
You see, your belief system is the result of past conditioning and experience. It is hardwired into your brain.
Think of your belief system as a thermostat of your reality. It regulates your reality. If you want something beyond your belief system, it gets activated causing pain and discomfort bringing you back to your current reality.
That’s why it is important to change your belief system before you manifest your desire. Simply put, you have to change your thermostat.
Likewise, if you want to manifest a divorce to get out of the misery of an abusive relationship, you want to change your belief or preconceived ideas about divorce first.
You may believe that getting a divorce is
- never right
- not good for children
- frustrating experience
- a financial suicide
- not an option
Or, you may believe getting divorce means you’ve failed in marriage. You’re a failure. If you’ve any of these beliefs about divorce, get rid of them as soon as possible as these are absolutely not true.
Instead, believe divorce is a good thing, and getting a divorce is okay.
It gets you rid of a toxic relationship. It gives you the freedom to live the life you want to live, to love whom you want to love, to go where you want to go, to do what you want to do.
If you choose to get a divorce, you’re not only doing good for yourself but also your spouse and children.
After all, you can’t afford to live an unhappy and stressful life forever.
Whenever you get feel intimidated at thoughts of getting a divorce, tell yourself this truth:
I’ve only one life to live. And, there is no fun at living my precious life being unhappy, fearful and stucked. Happiness is a choice. I choose to be happy.
Remember, first, change your belief system about divorce. Don’t think what friends or society will think about it. Instead, think about why it is important for you. Think about how it is going to make your life better.
Then, you will be able to manifest divorce peacefully under divine guidance.
Step#2: Find why you want a divorce
You’re not a person who easily gives up on life. You’ve had a high level of commitment in a relationship. So you did everything to save your marriage for the sake of yourself or your children.
But, there must have been a reason that makes you think of getting a divorce as a final solution. Get clear on that reason. Find out why you want a divorce.
To be honest, you need to have a burning desire to manifest. And, having a clear and compelling reason gives you that burning desire.
Besides some silly reasons for getting a divorce, there are some genuine reasons for it. Here are some of the reasons people get a divorce:
- lack of commitment
- too much arguing
- lack of equality in the relationship
- lack of freedom
- lack of love
Whatever your reasons for getting a divorce are, they should be motivating and compelling enough for you to take action.
You’ve worked on your belief system and found a compelling reason for getting a divorce. Next, let the universe know what you want. That means aks the universe for guidance to get a peaceful divorce.
Step#3: Let the universe know your desire
Sincerely, ask the universe to help you manifest a divorce. All you need to do is to ask to fulfill your desire.
You’ll receive what you’ve asked for. Period. That’s the law of the universe.
But, you need to have absolute faith in the universe and be clear about your goal while you ask for guidance.
The truth is even the mighty Universe can’t help you if you’re not clear about what you want and don’t show any faith.
Like a child, ask what you want and have unwavering faith. Clarity of goal and full faith is the key to manifestation.
Step#4: Visualization and Affirmation to manifest divorce
Unlike a child, we adults have a nearly fixed belief system and limited imagination power.
So to change the belief system by reprogramming the subconscious mind, you need to do visualization and recite affirmation related to your goal.
Visualization rekindles your imagination power and impresses your mind similar to real events. If you visualize the result of your desire enough times, you’ll neurologically and chemically develop a mind similar to a person who has already achieved those things.
That means you start to believe in the possibility of getting success at your desire.
Similarly, repeating affirmations frequently make your mind believe in your goal. It changes your mindset and approaches towards your goal.
In short, affirmation and visualization maximize your chance of manifesting divorce by changing your belief system and mindset.
So start visualizing the reality you want. It could be having a great time with the person you really love or doing things that you really want to do. And, create an affirmation that helps you manifest a quick and smooth divorce.
Here are few a affirmations to manifest a divorce:
I claim a peaceful divorce.
I feel absolute peace.
I bless my partner and I release him/her.
He/she is in the true place at all times as I am.
We have chosen to diverge and enjoy separate paths to glory.
I claim peaceful and joyful life.
I have the courage and power to live my life on my own terms.
I am my own master. I won’t let anyone hold me down from achieving my dream.
I am free. I am at peace. I am enjoying my life. I peacefully manifest divorce.
Step#5: Bless Your spouse
Nothing can hurt you more in your manifestation than having a negative feeling. In fact, feeling negative brings more negativity to your life.
If you’re seeking help to get a divorce, you must have disgusting or feeling of hatred about your spouse. It is natural so don’t feel guilty about it. However, you don’t want to linger on that feeling.
Because if you’ve negative feelings about your spouse or think you don’t to be in your current relationship, you’ll not only find yourself stuck in that relationship but also getting lots of trouble or fight. Why?
The universe doesn’t know the difference between a positive or negative statement. It only responds to your emotion- positive or negative.
If you think of your spouse or fight that you’ve had last night, you feel emotions like hatred or sadness.
It is hard to believe but, as time passes on, you get addicted to that emotion. Eventually, you seek more ways to feel that way. That means you attract more events that you don’t like to experience.
So, the wise thing to do is to bless your spouse to prevent negative feelings like hatred or sadness from surfacing in your consciousness.
Instead of thinking about getting rid of your current spouse, think of situations or events that you want.
In short, don’t focus on what you don’t want. Focus on what you want to get rid of what you don’t want.
Step#6: Raise your vibration and let go of the outcome
The last but most important step in the manifestation of a divorce is to raise your vibration.
What does it mean to raise your vibration?
To raise your vibration means to enjoy your life as best as you could. It is about not getting stressed out about the outcome that you’re seeking.
When you raise your vibration by being happy and enjoy the moment, you send good vibrations into the universe. It also signals that you believe in the universe for guidance to manifest a divorce.
Do what you enjoy doing. Spend time with the person you like. Do whatever makes you smile, relax your body and enjoy your life.
In short, let the universe bring your desire into reality. Don’t create doubt by constantly checking the outcome. It’s yours but you’ve to show faith and perseverance in your practice.
What to do after a divorce?
- Know your financial status. First, know where you’re at financially. Create a budget or financial plan to support your new lifestyle.
- Take a little break. Pack your bag. Travel somewhere you wanted to visit. Experience new place, new life, new people, new culture. It surely helps you get over the trauma of divorce.
- Find a support system. Spend time with family or friends who stay with you on good and bad days.
- Try new things. Get out of your comfort zone. Do what you’ve been putting off due to lack of time. Take an adventure. Learn a new skill. Try reincarnating yourself. Try living the best life each day, each moment, and each second.
The universe has given you a precious life. Respect it. You have one life to live. Why live it being unhappy and fearful?
If you’re upset in your marriage, there is no reason to push it. It is against the law. It only brings misery into one’s life. So, get rid of such toxic relationships for the benefit of you and other people around you.
You can manifest a divorce peacefully without any struggle with the divine guidance of the universe. Simply ask the universe for a peaceful divorce with unwavering faith to receive it.